It is hard enough to grieve one loss and the death of one person. When you experience multiple losses, grief is experienced at a whole other level. You may be asking yourself, ‘How do I even begin grieving these losses?” A sense of confusion may arise in the process of disentangling the multiple losses – picture a large tangled ball of grief with many threads to untangle. It is no wonder that it can feel like a complex endeavour to cope with cumulative grief.

The experience of grief is made up of so many intricate and hard moments: The time when you received the life-altering news. The wailing on the other end of the phone. The tears shed. The sleepless nights and nightmares. The fear and anxiety. The painful agony that feels unescapable. The yearning for who or what you have lost. The what-ifs, if-onlys, should-haves and regrets. The questionings. The world you were familiar with, now completely altered. The stories that replay in your mind about your life that was and your life that now is. The crushed hopes for the future. Your identity in the absence of who or what you used to have.